Change in Attitude- Keys to Open the Gates of Love
I’ve always thought what make people good or bad, well it’s pretty simple, even a child can distinguish who’s good and who’s bad, but what’s the play of our attitude , a person who’s good for you maybe bad for other. In this world, a single person is having many faces. But did you ever thought how your attitude should be? okay! I’m not anyone to tell you what attitude you should have, but your today’s attitude decides what is going to be your future.
So Leadership- Everyone has variating thoughts on Leadership, but leadership is not just like you’re the leader and you have to rule upon your members for a better future. According to me, Leadership is like a job for you to remind everyone that they are as good and brilliant as you, and what makes you leader here is that you don’t forget your duty but some people do and you have to make them remember of their duty too. That’s what leadership actually is.
We all are equally skilled and are equally brilliant too but it depends who agrees with it or who disagree, but a leader is that who agrees with equality in every way and make you remind of your own path.
Before any challenge, we can’t win without winning attitude, well everyone says this and about all motivation, blah blah blah....but winning attitude is actually important, it makes you feel confident and I experience it too. Well, I am even a simple person like you and I know it’s easy to say but in practical it’s much arduous, but it’s not impossible, let’s try to ignite some winning attitude in us, see, you will get practical results but as I say, it would take time.
Winning attitude often creates jealousy in others, like a person who is confident about himself will say to others, “ Haha, No one could defeat me, I have no fear, I’ll win haha” but thinking this is wrong, firstly winning attitude means you know that there are many competitors those who could defeat you, but you’ll try hard to let them not. Secondly, if you’d make anyone jealous of you, it’s not going to help, winning attitude includes support too, rather ignite them with you too in this attitude.
Okay, let me tell you, I’ve always been a simpleton, so simply I got many betrayers, but I always chose to forgive them. Now, you may say why forgiveness? See, getting into a fight gives you nothing. Forgiving attitude is the clue that you’re a good person. Maybe the person who did something wrong with you, didn’t mean to do that. But, Forgiving a person has a limit too, because you can make mistakes, but repeating doesn’t make any sense. But this type of attitude is required in our life to deal with different people.
So I think Forgiveness is the key to open the gates of peace and love, killing hatred, and I think it’s not hard at all.
The play of Fear in our lives is like finding a treasure with many casualties in between the way, but if we overcome it, we get the result. So getting feared is not shoddy, it’s in the human nature, What do you think who is called as “brave”? Brave isn’t the one who has no fear, it’s the one who overcomes his/her fear. So what’s the role of attitude in this? See, you usually don’t want to get scared of anything, but as I said it’s somehow required, so here the role of change in attitude comes by accepting our fear and overcoming it.
I usually used to get feared of many things, not ghosts, but anything else like fear of doing any mistake which hurts my friends’ feelings, or fear of any mistake in the exam and all which is common, but as the time passed I learnt how to be better and today even I’m not good enough, there’re way far better people than me, but my fear has always been giving me the lessons, so remember the competition has been made by us, but our main competitor is just ourselves, and I know we’re not going to lose.
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